Thursday, December 29, 2011

If Our Marriage...


Happy 17th Anniversary to my Man...

If our marriage was a person, it would be a teenager with car keys
If our marriage was a car, it would be a junkyard dweller by now. 
If our union was a house, it would be time for some needed renovations. 
If our marriage was a grandma-crafted quilt, it would just be getting good and soft and maybe a little frayed about the edges. 
If the time marking our togetherness marked instead, the age of a book, that book would not yet be considered a classic. 
If our marriage was a clothes dryer ... well, we'd be on our second one! 
Our marriage is none of these things of course...our marriage is a marriage...a seventeen year old one. 
A seventeen year old marriage that has, in its lifetime been...
full of faith,
 full of wonder, 
full of trust,
full of expectation,
 full of serious conversations, 
full of growth,
full of belly grabbing laughter, 
tinged at times with...
 stress, 
tears,
 worry and 
apprehension
...but not for too long...
Later we filled it with...
more laughter,
teamwork,
a couple of babies,
lots of diapers,
homeownership,
friendship,
sleeplessness,
new adventures,
old struggles,
new challenges,
a few more babies,
a lot more diapers,
and sprinkled in...
 lessons well learned
and some not so well learned
a wrinkle or two
and some aches (just a few!)

Our marriage has been full of all those things we vowed to one another that winter evening when we were so 
very young,
 and unwrinkled,
 and un-grey, 
and unafraid,
 and oh, so na├»ve
...all of those things we vowed and THEN some!
I love who our marriage has become over these seventeen years. 
If our marriage was a motorcycle...
I'd be so tickled to be your sidecar!

~All my love...
...and then some~

{Hi! This post is part of Perspectives on Life and Love Carnival at ModernMrsDarcy.com check it out for more fun stories of life and love!}

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Beautifully written. Quite a lucky guy.

G'ma suz said...

17 years ago things were "abuzz" with excited laughing young ladies and middle-aged ladies in our home at a bridal breakfast and a very controlled but an extremely emotional man with a list orchestrating a beautiful day for two young characters awaiting a ride into what we now see as a lovely future perhaps in a shinny motorcycle and a cute "fiery " sidecar!!!!!!!! Love, Dad and MOM. AND Thank you, Darrin, for taking such good care of her and adding those darling accessories to the vehicles!!

Anonymous said...

aww!! Happy Anniversary, Mrs. Wright!

Love,
Andrea

The Leighs said...

Happy 17th Anniversary!!
Love YOU AND YOUR ACCESSORIES ;)
Miss you!

Anne @ Modern Mrs Darcy said...

Love! And my brain kept trying to set this post to music as I was reading :)

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